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How Much DNA Do I Share With My Child?

If you have done an autosomal DNA test, you might be wondering what the average number of centimorgans (cMs) a parent will share with their child.  This is a very common question! In this post, you will learn how much DNA you share with your child and how this affects your child’s ethnicity estimate.

How much DNA do I share with my child?

Your child will share very close to 50% of their DNA with you, which equals around 3400 cMs.   The exact amount of DNA (measured in centimorgans or percentages) won’t be displayed as this exact amount. 

Instead, it will fall within a range, which is generally between about 3300-3700 cMs.

Are you surprised to learn that your offspring will only share 50% of their DNA with you?  We don’t pass down all of our genes to our children, unfortunately (or fortunately – ha!). 

Instead, our children inherit 50% of our genes through a process called recombination.  Every person has 22 numbered chromosomes and a sex chromosome. 

We have two copies of each chromosome which we inherited from each of our parents.

Since we have two copies of each chromosome, the two copies of each chromosomes that we have must “recombine” to form into a “new” chromosome that we can pass down to our kids. 

The end result of this is that our child will have two copies of each chromosomes, too, but only one of their copies came from you.  The other 50% of their DNA (the other copy of their chromosomes) came from their other parent – also a “recombined” copy.

Example of a child DNA match on Ancestry DNA

In the image below, you can see how much DNA I share with my daughter on my Ancestry DNA results.  We share 3,465 cMs, which is just about exactly the average of shared autosomal DNA that shows up on these types of tests. 

You might also note that Ancestry states clearly that our “predicted relationship” is Parent/Child.  Since parents share so much DNA with their children, this type of predicted relationship is rarely wrong.

Child DNA Match on Ancestry DNA

Example of a child DNA match on My Heritage DNA

This is how the same daughter shows up as a match for me on My Heritage.  You will notice that there is a slight difference in the reported shared centimorgans. 

We show up as sharing 3,491 cMs on My Heritage, but only share 3,465 cMs on Ancestry DNA.  This is only a slight difference and is insignificant as far as determining a relationship – especially since I already know we are parent and child.

The explanation for the variation in shared DNA between companies is due to the algorithm used to determine matches, and the thresholds for SNPs and segment sizes – nothing to stress over.

Child match on My Heritage

Is it possible for a child to have more DNA from one parent than the other?

No, your child will inherit 50% of their autosomal DNA from the mother, and 50% from the father.  There is no way that inherited significantly more autosomal DNA from one parent. 

Even when taking the sex chromosome into consideration, a child shares the same amount of DNA with each parent. 

This is because a son inherits an X chromosome from his mother, and a Y chromosome from his father.  A daughter inherits an X chromosome from each parent. 

This means both our sons and daughters share 50% of our DNA with us, no matter how we look at it.

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Sometimes, people are tempted to think that a child shares more DNA with them because of physical traits or personality characteristics that they display.  Our genes work in funny ways – traits sometimes show up, and other times they don’t. 

Occasionally, one of our children may seem more like us than another, but the amount of shared DNA is never more than 50%.

Note:  Even though a child does share 50% of their DNA with each parent, there is some evidence that gene expressions tend to favor the dad’s genes 🙂

How much of my ethnicity will I pass down to my child?

Because your child only shares 50% of your DNA with you, you can also expect that their ethnicity estimate will not exactly match yours.  As I mentioned before, DNA is passed down in a process called recombination. 

There is one more important thing you should know about recombination, especially when it comes to ethnicity estimates:  it’s random. 

That’s right, when recombination occurs and the “new” copy of the chromosome is made to get passed down to your child, there is no real way to know which DNA will get passed down.

For example, if you have 30% Nigerian DNA, your child might get all of it, none of it, or some of it.  The general rule of thumb is that they will get half of it, but this rarely occurs. 

It’s more likely that they will some Nigerian DNA, and some of your other ethnicity regions.

Can my child have an ethnicity region show up in their results that I don’t have?

It is also possible for your child to have an ethnicity show up in their DNA that does not show up in yours.  How can this be?

Let’s pretend that your child shows some Irish ancestry that didn’t show up in their results.  There is a chance that their other parent has Irish ancestry, and so you could have their other parent take a DNA test to confirm this. 

An additional explanation is that both you and your child’s other parent have very small “trace” amounts in your DNA, and your child happened to inherit both of those minute amounts – leading to a detectable amount for their ethnicity estimate.

Do you want to do a DNA test?

If you haven’t already done a DNA test, you might be interested in my post titled, “Beginner’s Guide to DNA Testing: the Ultimate Strategy”. It can help you decide which test is best for you.

I recommend testing with Ancestry DNA, Living DNA, 23andMe, or Family Tree DNA.

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I hope that this post answered your question about how much DNA you share with your child.  Have you found any surprises, either with amount of shared DNA or ethnicity, when testing yourself and/or your parents? 

I’d love to hear from you in the comments below.

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Thursday 2nd of April 2020

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