When someone is looking for their biological father, many people just suggest “take a DNA test”, like the one from Ancestry DNA. But does this work? Can Ancestry DNA tell me who my father is, you ask? The answer to this question is complicated, but by the end of this post, you will understand:
- Whether Ancestry DNA can tell you exactly who your father is
- Why you should do a DNA test if you are looking for a biological father, or any other relative
- How you can use Ancestry DNA as a tool to find your biological father
Will Ancestry DNA be able to tell me who my father is?
If your father has also done a DNA test with Ancestry DNA, then yes. Your DNA results will include a list of DNA matches, and he should be at the very top under the “Parent/Child” category. Underneath his name on your match list, if he has also tested, it will say “So and so is your father”. There is no way to mistake it – the sentence leaves no room for confusion. Is it possible that it will be this easy to find your father? There are people who have gotten their DNA results and have gotten extremely lucky, but this is not what happens most of the time.
If your father has not done a DNA test with Ancestry DNA, then the website will not be able to tell you who your father is. Your list if DNA matches will include people from both sides of your family, and so you might have relatively close matches from your father’s side of the family, but there will no label by their name telling you exactly where they are in your family tree (unfortunately!).
- Most of the time, DNA testing will be a tool that you can use, along with many others, to build your family tree, as well as figure out exactly who your biological father is.
- It’s not a foolproof method and requires a lot of work in most cases
It should be noted that once you do a DNA test with Ancestry DNA, your results will stay in their database, and as more and more people take a DNA test, you will see new matches on your match list. It’s important to check your match list occasionally, just in case you do get a really close new match (or a parent match!).
Should I take a DNA test if I am looking for my father?
Yes! Taking a DNA test is the absolute best way to learn about your father’s family. While it isn’t easy, and there will be work involved, it is the best way to learn if you are on the right path with your research. By taking a DNA test, you will learn your ethnicity and have access to an extensive list of DNA matches.
If you think that your father is not from the United States, it is possible that a DNA test might be less useful as a tool. With that said, you will still learn about ethnicity that you inherited from him, as well as about what part of the world most of your DNA matches live in.
Why Ancestry DNA vs. other DNA testing companies
It’s true that there are many companies offering DNA testing, and some of them are very reputable. Why do I recommend Ancestry DNA versus a company like 23 and Me, for example? Ancestry DNA has the largest database in the United States, with more than 6 million DNA users. Once you test with Ancestry DNA, you can then download your DNA file and upload it to several other websites to get even more DNA matches. This is the path that I recommend to get the maximum effect for the smallest effort – and investment.
How you can use Ancestry DNA as a tool to find your biological father
Since this post is primarily about whether Ancestry DNA can tell you who your father is, I will assume that you haven’t yet done your DNA test. I don’t want to get too technical into the details about exactly how to use Ancestry DNA for finding unknown family, but I have written a few posts that you might find helpful if you are trying to decide whether to do a test:
- A story about how I used Ancestry DNA to help one of my family member’s find their biological father
- Example of Ancestry DNA results
- DNA matches and genealogy
I know that you will find DNA testing to be a fun and interesting way to learn more about your roots. With patience, diligence, and maybe a little bit of luck, you will learn a lot about both sides of your family.
I hope this post helped you get an idea of how Ancestry DNA can help you find out who your biological father is. I truly want to help you find what you are looking for. If you have any questions, comments, or concerns about anything, or just want to share your story, please feel free to leave a message in the comments below.
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